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How to Choose the Perfect Style for Your Girlfriend

Boys, read up!

Buying a new dress for your girlfriend is quite an art. Your choice will demonstrate how well you know your partner, so it's important you bear in mind these three key factors:

· What her tastes are

· What will flatter her, and

· What she's likely to wear again and again

It's a bit of a high-wire act, but if you can pull it off, she's bound to appreciate the effort you've put in. Here are our tips for finding the right dress to suit the occasion.

1. Anniversary night out

Try to find a balance between what she'd feel comfortable and attractive wearing and what you'd like to see her wear. If you're planning to take her to an exclusive restaurant, you'll want something form-fitting and elegant. You can't go wrong with the classic little black dress. An LBD is every woman's wardrobe standby, as it's both slimming and inherently stylish. A smart black dress is suitable for every occasion and needs only a dash of red lipstick for the look to be complete.

2. Holidays

The ideal holiday dress works for both daytime and evening. When you're getting ready to jet off for a break, try to find something that can be easily adapted. An embroidered tunic or kaftan is a great option: it can be slipped over her swimsuit to cover up after a day relaxing on the beach, then later on it can be dressed up with studded platforms and some statement jewellery for a night out.

3. A night out with the girls

Think about how your girlfriend might like to look on a night out with her closest friends. If she's curvaceous, look for a wraparound dress that will really show off her figure. Or if she's slim, a fitted bodycon dress will look great; alternatively, you could opt for a classic pencil skirt with an elegant silk blouse for a touch of class.

Shop with a charge card from American Express and you'll be able to earn reward points as you spend. Virtually every purchase on your charge card will earn you points, which can then be redeemed for rewards such as holidays and unique experiences - perhaps the perfect occasion to wear that fabulous new dress!

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Surviving Scarification

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Wearing a contrast blazer bought online | H&M black and white striped tank dress (similar here) | Fossil Watch, vintage MCM handbag | gifted shoes and skeleton cuff

photos by Thaad A Sabolboro

Scarification, by definition, is literally what the body experiences after receiving marks and wounds involving scratching, burning, and/or cutting into the skin. A term more popularly used for those practicing extreme body modifications, "scarification" can also be a term used for natural wounds and the process of their healing.

Since today is Good Friday, I thought it would only be appropriate to blog from within; and to stop and reflect about all the good, the bad, and the ugly. Though varying in severity and situations, I think all of us are survivors of some sort of personal turmoil, no matter what way, shape or form they may be. Over the years, we have amassed tons of mental, emotional, physical, and spiritual wounds-- and we have the battle scars to show for them.

I am certainly not exempted from this. I have endured so much scarring from all sorts of wounds-some I brought on to myself, admittedly--that it's hard to cope and keep track of it all. Just this past year alone, it was such a ridiculous roller-coaster of extreme highs, and then extreme lows, and then back up again that I can't keep my emotions at bay in one place. I don't know if life will throw me a lemon, or a stone, in every corner I turn to--so naturally I've just braced myself for whatever good or bad comes around.

Despite of it all, something really good has emerged from all this stream of life challenges--a strengthened and renewed relationship with God. To anyone who asks, I will readily admit that I am not devout in practicing my religion. I don't go to church every Sunday, I cuss like a sailor, and I may have forgotten the bible basics I learned as a child. But what I DO have though is a one-to-one conversation with Him in my thoughts, an earnest faith that He will provide the strength I need to get by in this life, and a deep sense of hope that He will pave the way for the greatness (I'll try my best haha) that I'm meant to achieve for myself. No matter how bad and ugly it gets, He always sends in little signs of good that reminds me to hang on. It never fails to amaze me.

I'm proud to say that I have and will continue to survive scarification beautifully because of Him. Take the time to be thankful for the little things, especially today. Have a truly Good Friday!

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Escape to Warmer Climes this Easter: Men's Clothing Essentials

With the arrival of Easter comes the potential for a last minute sojourn in hotter climes (a lot of that found in Cebu!). If you don’t have any suitable attire in your wardrobe for a stint in the sun, you can easily add some indispensables to your collection that wouldn’t look out of place in the Costas. Kit yourself out with some of the latest trends and pack some staple items that are as versatile as they are trendy. You don’t even need to worry aboutexcessive prices either – your local George at ASDA could be a saving grace, providing everything you need at rock bottom prices, including:

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Shoes

If you are happy to wear canvas shoes, these could be a perfect addition your suitcase. Versatile, comfortable and looking great, canvas shoes can be dressed up or down depending on your plans. The fabric upper means your feet will stay cool and aired, while they'd look great with shorts or linen trousers - perfect for a romantic walk along the beach with your loved one at sunset. Alternatively, take a look at the various flipflops on the market, which are ideal poolside if you plan to chill on a sun lounger during your break away from the norm. If you plan to partake in day excursions, be sure to pack some comfortable trainers or supportive shoes, so that your feet don't blister during the adventure.

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Bottoms

Pack a couple of pairs of lightweight trousers for the milder evenings; linen trousers can be perfect for a relaxing evening, while a selection of shorts would be ideal for daytime activities. Swim shorts are essential if you're planning a dip in the pool, while chinos seem to be a popular trend this year. These versatile shorts can look amazing, whatever you wear. From print T-shirts to light short sleeve shirts, chinos are a multipurpose item that can go with anything. Pick up some casual shorts if you fancy them too, such as the checked casual shorts or the cargo camouflage shorts, both priced at £12 from George at ASDA.

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Tops

Keep it simple with tops this year; the graphic print T shirts are bang on trend this spring and are perfect for a relaxing beach holiday. These flexible items give you attire for both evening and daytime activities – they would look just as cool in a cocktail bar as they would by the pool. Pack a lightweight jacket or hoody as well, just in case of mild evenings or light winds. Having one on hand, should the air get a little breezy, will mean a huge difference.

Ensure these basics are covered and you can’t really go far wrong on your holiday in the sun. Don’t forget the suncreen or the sunnies though – springtime sun can be a scorcher!

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Summer on Acid

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The Leisurely Lady's Exercise Guide

Since we're on the brink of summer and all of us are getting [extremely] body-conscious, I thought it would only be timely if I posted a few little exercise reminders!
Exercise is vital for a healthy lifestyle, but it need not be time-consuming. You can fit exercise and stretching into your daily routine without the effort of long slogs at the gym. Perfect for anyone with a few minutes to spare, take note of the following exercises and practice on a daily basis for an easier way to get fit in 2013.

Leg lifts:
Whilst chilling in the lounge, strengthen your leg muscles with these easy lifts. Sit on a sofa with legs out in front of you, heels touching the floor. Raise both legs together, keeping straight and hold for a count of five. Lower to the floor, and repeat several times. To make things more difficult, place a heavy book on your shins as you raise and hold your legs.
Power-walking:
Simply increasing the pace of your walking can help improve aerobic fitness. If walking to work, set your alarm a little later – forcing you to up your pace! Make the most of your power-walking session by wearing the correct footwear. isme’s range of Skecher’s shape ups feature kinetix response technology and a soft foam midsole for support, stability and comfort.
Ad break activities:
The excitement of watching your fave reality TV show may get your heart racing, but it’s during the ad breaks that you can really start your blood pumping. Use this time to complete a quick burst of exercise. Tuck your feet under an armchair, cross your arms over your body and complete as many crunches as possible. Vary ad break exercises throughout the evening: press ups and squats are also great for quick bursts.Post-shower stretches:
Stretching your muscles can improve flexibility and provide a warm-up if power-walking to work. After a shower, apply your favourite body lotion and, whilst waiting for your skin to dry off, try a few simple stretches. Touch your toes and hold leg lunges to stretch lower muscles, and raise your arms to the ceiling, holding stretches to the right and left to work your upper body.

Exercise doesn’t always involve sweating it out with tons of effort. Mix up relaxation time with bursts of activity to improve fitness levels without all the hard work! Get fit and see your efforts pay off this summer!